Keeping It Cute, Simple & Over 40

Birthday Dinner Style, Tall-Girl Approved

This year, my birthday celebration came right after a long day at work. My daughter planned a sweet dinner for us, and while I was excited to spend that time with her, the real challenge was figuring out what to wear. You ever have one of those days where nothing feels quite right? That was me.

I started with the idea of wearing a blazer and shorts—chic, polished, and something I’ve been wanting to try. But for whatever reason, I just wasn’t feeling it. The vibe wasn’t vibing. So I changed direction and reached for an old favorite: a tall-girl-friendly olive green jumpsuit from Fashion Nova.

If you’re tall like me, you know the struggle of finding jumpsuits that actually hit at the right spot. Fashion Nova has become one of my go-tos over the years because they get it. This jumpsuit was plain but flattering, and most importantly, it felt good. I’m big on simplicity. I’d rather feel like myself in something understated than force a look that doesn’t match my energy.

To keep the look elevated, I paired it with my Louis Vuitton Neo Noé in noir—such a classic piece that instantly pulls things together. But the real star of the show? These sparkly glasses from Zeelool. The shape was perfect for my face, and the subtle bling added just the right touch of fun to the look. One thing I’ve learned: a good statement piece can do all the talking.

As a professional woman in my early 40s, my style philosophy has definitely evolved. I aim for looks that are age-appropriate, stylish, and still reflect my personality. It’s not always easy, but here’s what helps me: I focus on one statement piece at a time. That’s my go-to strategy when I want to keep things simple but still feel put together. Sometimes it’s a bag. Sometimes it’s a bold lip. This time, it was the glasses.

My pro tip: Pick your star piece, then build around it. Edit as you go. Add if needed, subtract when in doubt.

Now I’m curious—what’s your go-to styling tip when you’re getting dressed after a long day but still want to show up and shine?